The Closed Set
On a closed set, only the people who need to be there are there. Your chats are treated the same way.
What we keep
- Your account: email, a hashed password, first name, date of birth, gender, and whatever you add to your slate.
- Your chats and her notes on you, so that she can remember.
- A session cookie, and a cookie that records you passed the adults-only gate.
- Payment records: the amount and the transaction reference. We never see a card, because we do not take cards.
- Ordinary server logs, kept for a short time for security.
What we use it for
To run the chat, enforce the rules and keep the site standing. Messages are processed by an AI model we host ourselves or through a provider bound to the same purpose; automated checks read them for safety. Nobody buys your chats, and no advertiser ever sees them.
Counting visitors
We count visits with a simple analytics counter that shows how many people came and from where. It does not read your chats.
Your controls
Every chat's menu lets you edit her notes on you, take a copy of the chat, or strike it. To delete your whole account and everything in it, write to the mailbox in the footer from the account's address. If the law where you live gives you further rights, tell us and we will honor them.
